I belong to the social bottom in my organization. I have been a laughingstock for 4 years. I have 3 true friends who accept me for I am, though.
One Good Samaritan finally told me all my social flaws and defects, and told me how people have been making fun of me while I am not present, and how some sneer.
I decided to improve on all of those flaws and defects as best as I can. Two weeks, and there is already a huge difference. Syempre, I decided to start with the more obvious things like the way I eat (di na parang baboy kumain), from sloppy manner of dressing up to slick, my posture to a more confident posture, etc.
But before the Good Samaritan left the office, he said, "Even if you improve on all of your flaws and defects, it will take at least 1 year and a few months for the people in the office to change their mind about you. For they already have a picture of you ingrained in them for years."
Medyo nadepress ako dun. So pexers, tingin niyo hindi ako makakarise from being a social bottom/outcast until 1 year? Ano pa ang mga pwede kong gawin? Please help me with honesty. Thank you.
One Good Samaritan finally told me all my social flaws and defects, and told me how people have been making fun of me while I am not present, and how some sneer.
I decided to improve on all of those flaws and defects as best as I can. Two weeks, and there is already a huge difference. Syempre, I decided to start with the more obvious things like the way I eat (di na parang baboy kumain), from sloppy manner of dressing up to slick, my posture to a more confident posture, etc.
But before the Good Samaritan left the office, he said, "Even if you improve on all of your flaws and defects, it will take at least 1 year and a few months for the people in the office to change their mind about you. For they already have a picture of you ingrained in them for years."
Medyo nadepress ako dun. So pexers, tingin niyo hindi ako makakarise from being a social bottom/outcast until 1 year? Ano pa ang mga pwede kong gawin? Please help me with honesty. Thank you.